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	<title>Comments on: Obsession and risk-taking: What New Moon tells us about how teens think romance should be</title>
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		<title>By: Djenster93</title>
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		<dc:creator>Djenster93</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 20:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously? who reallyc ars twilight is a great series you can go like read ur psychology crap somewhere else...k if we want to jump off a cliff we can so just shutup</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously? who reallyc ars twilight is a great series you can go like read ur psychology crap somewhere else&#8230;k if we want to jump off a cliff we can so just shutup</p>
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		<title>By: Lucianorisotto</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lucianorisotto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Twi-hard?  Is that an Avatard in disguise?  What happened to discouraging the disparaging use of this expanded reference to delayed or retarded individuals? 

Perhaps there&#039;s a teaching point there.  

With respect to the &quot;sky is falling, our children are so involved with dubious characters&quot; approach, one can go back to The Bard himself to see that much ado has been made about nothing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Twi-hard?  Is that an Avatard in disguise?  What happened to discouraging the disparaging use of this expanded reference to delayed or retarded individuals? </p>
<p>Perhaps there&#8217;s a teaching point there.  </p>
<p>With respect to the &#8220;sky is falling, our children are so involved with dubious characters&#8221; approach, one can go back to The Bard himself to see that much ado has been made about nothing.</p>
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		<title>By: Happymommyx4</title>
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		<dc:creator>Happymommyx4</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 18:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I definately think that before letting your child read these books, it would be very wise to read them yourself so that you can discuss some issues in the book. As a LDS member (aka mormon) myself, I can see a great deal of the culture of our religion in Stephanie&#039;s writings (she is LDS). Unfortunately, it is the negative side of the woman who obediantly follows and throws away all of her dreams for a husband. Bella is the typical Utah girl through and through. I loved the books, although they are not exactly great works of literature, and do allow my daughter to read them; however, we have also talked about how blindly throwing away your own life for anyone is probably not the best choice. We have had a number of nice talks about how the book is a great story, but not very realistic and that it is just there for entertainment, not to teach life lessons. 

Also, much like we talk about women&#039;s bodies in movies and magazines not being realistic, we have also talked about how Edward embodies the &quot;perfect&quot; man (smart, educated, wealthy, protective, sensitive, loving, and self-less in many ways), and perhaps you should not base your expectations of a man on Edward. 

If a parent is going to advise a child not to read these books due to the unhealthy nature of the relationships, surely they will also not allow their children to read Romeo and Juliet. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I definately think that before letting your child read these books, it would be very wise to read them yourself so that you can discuss some issues in the book. As a LDS member (aka mormon) myself, I can see a great deal of the culture of our religion in Stephanie&#8217;s writings (she is LDS). Unfortunately, it is the negative side of the woman who obediantly follows and throws away all of her dreams for a husband. Bella is the typical Utah girl through and through. I loved the books, although they are not exactly great works of literature, and do allow my daughter to read them; however, we have also talked about how blindly throwing away your own life for anyone is probably not the best choice. We have had a number of nice talks about how the book is a great story, but not very realistic and that it is just there for entertainment, not to teach life lessons. </p>
<p>Also, much like we talk about women&#8217;s bodies in movies and magazines not being realistic, we have also talked about how Edward embodies the &#8220;perfect&#8221; man (smart, educated, wealthy, protective, sensitive, loving, and self-less in many ways), and perhaps you should not base your expectations of a man on Edward. </p>
<p>If a parent is going to advise a child not to read these books due to the unhealthy nature of the relationships, surely they will also not allow their children to read Romeo and Juliet.</p>
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		<title>By: Scarlet </title>
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		<dc:creator>Scarlet </dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 22:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really? 

This is a fictional book ment for entertainment. Do people honeslty think teenagers are this impressonable? They arn&#039;t and why must a book become a role modle for teenagers? The only time a perent will have to worry about this is if your child starts dateing a vampier! Then and only then, well i guess you can&#039;t do too much because they will suck your blood... huh... well thats what you get for reading into things that are basic and not meant to dive deeper in, mabey people will start thinking that is promtos animal abuse, because jake  is a wolf.</description>
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<p>This is a fictional book ment for entertainment. Do people honeslty think teenagers are this impressonable? They arn&#8217;t and why must a book become a role modle for teenagers? The only time a perent will have to worry about this is if your child starts dateing a vampier! Then and only then, well i guess you can&#8217;t do too much because they will suck your blood&#8230; huh&#8230; well thats what you get for reading into things that are basic and not meant to dive deeper in, mabey people will start thinking that is promtos animal abuse, because jake  is a wolf.</p>
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		<title>By: Top stories on Thrive: 2009</title>
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		<dc:creator>Top stories on Thrive: 2009</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 21:04:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Twilight phenomenon has hit teens and pre-teens worldwide. Claire McCarthy, MD, gives suggestions for how [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Illey</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 20:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that this is what any responsable and caring parent would say, But I also believe that Twilight is not just a regular phenomenon, It&#039;s an amazing way to entertain teenagers, and the story of a human who falls deeply in love with a vampire is perfect for both genders, Since Stephenie Meyer also added horror effects and emotions , both boys and girls can enjoy it!
one thing that I think dr.Mccarthy forgot to consider is that IT&#039;S JUST ANOTHER PHENOMENON, and this kind of &quot;stuff&quot; doesn&#039;t really hurt a child, exept for the school paragraph I think that teenagers today are more smart and they know what&#039;s best for them, even if parent&#039;s duties cannot be denied.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that this is what any responsable and caring parent would say, But I also believe that Twilight is not just a regular phenomenon, It&#8217;s an amazing way to entertain teenagers, and the story of a human who falls deeply in love with a vampire is perfect for both genders, Since Stephenie Meyer also added horror effects and emotions , both boys and girls can enjoy it!<br />
one thing that I think dr.Mccarthy forgot to consider is that IT&#8217;S JUST ANOTHER PHENOMENON, and this kind of &#8220;stuff&#8221; doesn&#8217;t really hurt a child, exept for the school paragraph I think that teenagers today are more smart and they know what&#8217;s best for them, even if parent&#8217;s duties cannot be denied.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
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Kelly
sorry. As a reading specialist, I must disagree. I believe that even my fifth graders can discern fanstasy from reality. Remember the MA high school that had to send out a memo to parents assuring them that there were &quot;no real vampires&quot;...c&#039;mon..

Jill
oh give me a break.

Patricia Kinsley
I totally agree and after reading the first two books I&#039;m thrilled my 13yr old daughter has not been drawn to the series.

Chrissy White
Young girls have been obsessing over boys (and vise versa) since before Heathcliff and Cathy fell in love...if you have a romantic sensibility, you have a romantic sensibility. And if you live long enough, you eventually grow out of it....sigh..

Jodi Rogers
Bullcrap...monitor your kids if you want..there are far worse things in this world that they get hooked on...if you have taught your kids correctly, they will know better....this is a love story that is obviously not real...get in touch with your kids and their &quot;reality&quot;

Dori Kelly
Why does the love interest have to be a vampire? Yuk! Whatever happened to Heathcliff and Kathy? LOL

Jill Cavanaugh
Not all the teen&#039;s who have seen the movie twilight or new moon have actually read the books. if you go into a packed new moon theater and ask them how many have read the books only a small percent will raise their hands, then ask how many are there for Robert Pattinson and a good percent will raise their hands, then ask how many are there for Taylor Lautner and a very large percent will raise their hands. Then ask them why they are there to see these characters and they will say &quot;for the shirtless scenes&quot;. I agree if a parent monitors their children there should be no problems.

Kim Giroux Natola
This series has lead my daughter to do a ton of reading. She knows there are no vampires. It is fun reading. They read about the Salem Witch trials in school....who believes in witches?

Kelly
The Witch of Blackbird Pond is required reading in most districts around middle school age and is RIFE with such nonsense. Why not focus on our deteriorating school systems that focus solely on high stakes testing results and are forgetting to teach our kids how to LOVE reading. Lifelong readers LOVE reading. Google Jim Trelease and read some of ... See Morehis demographic stats on quality of life, longevity and status of readers vs nonreaders. To be fair, on his site there&#039;s little mention of demographic stats on teens who think vampires are real....I&#039;m SURE they do just fiiiiiine.

Vanessa Amaral
I love the Twilight saga...so good!!!

Stephanie Gardyna
I agree with Kelly, we&#039;ve got to get the kid reading again.

Chris Cook Espinola
Books are books and I think that teens usually can separate one from reality! We all read to escape reality and fantasize for a little while. Risk taking and obsession should be experiences in a book! Books don&#039;t always mirror real-life and they shouldn&#039;t!</description>
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<p>Kelly<br />
sorry. As a reading specialist, I must disagree. I believe that even my fifth graders can discern fanstasy from reality. Remember the MA high school that had to send out a memo to parents assuring them that there were &#8220;no real vampires&#8221;&#8230;c&#8217;mon..</p>
<p>Jill<br />
oh give me a break.</p>
<p>Patricia Kinsley<br />
I totally agree and after reading the first two books I&#8217;m thrilled my 13yr old daughter has not been drawn to the series.</p>
<p>Chrissy White<br />
Young girls have been obsessing over boys (and vise versa) since before Heathcliff and Cathy fell in love&#8230;if you have a romantic sensibility, you have a romantic sensibility. And if you live long enough, you eventually grow out of it&#8230;.sigh..</p>
<p>Jodi Rogers<br />
Bullcrap&#8230;monitor your kids if you want..there are far worse things in this world that they get hooked on&#8230;if you have taught your kids correctly, they will know better&#8230;.this is a love story that is obviously not real&#8230;get in touch with your kids and their &#8220;reality&#8221;</p>
<p>Dori Kelly<br />
Why does the love interest have to be a vampire? Yuk! Whatever happened to Heathcliff and Kathy? LOL</p>
<p>Jill Cavanaugh<br />
Not all the teen&#8217;s who have seen the movie twilight or new moon have actually read the books. if you go into a packed new moon theater and ask them how many have read the books only a small percent will raise their hands, then ask how many are there for Robert Pattinson and a good percent will raise their hands, then ask how many are there for Taylor Lautner and a very large percent will raise their hands. Then ask them why they are there to see these characters and they will say &#8220;for the shirtless scenes&#8221;. I agree if a parent monitors their children there should be no problems.</p>
<p>Kim Giroux Natola<br />
This series has lead my daughter to do a ton of reading. She knows there are no vampires. It is fun reading. They read about the Salem Witch trials in school&#8230;.who believes in witches?</p>
<p>Kelly<br />
The Witch of Blackbird Pond is required reading in most districts around middle school age and is RIFE with such nonsense. Why not focus on our deteriorating school systems that focus solely on high stakes testing results and are forgetting to teach our kids how to LOVE reading. Lifelong readers LOVE reading. Google Jim Trelease and read some of &#8230; See Morehis demographic stats on quality of life, longevity and status of readers vs nonreaders. To be fair, on his site there&#8217;s little mention of demographic stats on teens who think vampires are real&#8230;.I&#8217;m SURE they do just fiiiiiine.</p>
<p>Vanessa Amaral<br />
I love the Twilight saga&#8230;so good!!!</p>
<p>Stephanie Gardyna<br />
I agree with Kelly, we&#8217;ve got to get the kid reading again.</p>
<p>Chris Cook Espinola<br />
Books are books and I think that teens usually can separate one from reality! We all read to escape reality and fantasize for a little while. Risk taking and obsession should be experiences in a book! Books don&#8217;t always mirror real-life and they shouldn&#8217;t!</p>
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		<title>By: The Twilight sequel might have a bad influence on teenagers &#171; Challenging Perceptions</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Twilight sequel might have a bad influence on teenagers &#171; Challenging Perceptions</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 22:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] cashing more money than Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince, Spiderman 3 and even Dark Night. As Claire McCarthy mentions, &#8220;there is absolutely no doubt that we are dealing with a true teen [...]</description>
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